Kyoto

Getting up at 4:30am, DJ and I blearily made it to the freezing cold shower room and slowly washed and woke up. We finished packing and said goodbye to the boys and hurried down the mountain with a flashlight. I was glad that I had suggested it since it was still pitch black at 5:30 in the morning. There was a full moon, but the woods are so thick, that no light can get through. We got to the station at 5:55 and the 6:01 train was waiting for us. Most of the Japanese business people were sitting on the train trying to warm up, but after our trek, DJ and I were trying to cool down. The gaijin bubble was in full effect at first, but as the train filled up, people were much more willing to sit next to us. A couple of months ago, I showed DJ the blog of a guy who also lives in japan and refers to the ability of gaijin (foreigners) to keep a considerable amount of personal space (even on a crowded morning train) because no one wants to get too close to foreigners. I don’t usually experience this when I’m alone anymore, but when DJ and I travel together…it’s in full effect. It was really bad when we first got here. But, as time went on I guess i got a little better at adopting the train attitude and don’t stick out quite as much anymore. Although, as gaijin, there’s only so much I can blend.

We made it to Shinagawa and onto the Shinkansen (bullet train). With a couple of Starbuck’s coffees and some snacks brought from home, we settled in for the two and a half hour ride. Each with our own iPod’s and (he with his sports and my NPR) podcasts we watched the scenery blow by with breathtaking speed. I have to admit that I could have stayed on the train all day, but soon we arrived in Kyoto and began finding our way to the hotel. We talked to Aunt Janet on the way and took some pictures at a small shrine that we ran across.

Some two hours later, backs and feet hurting from carrying luggage we checked in at the Karasuma Kyoto Hotel. It was Western, but nice. The beds were uncomfortable, but it was clean and it did the job. We got lunch at an Indian place and then, since it was getting a bit late and we wanted to make sure we had enough sunlight left, we took a cab to Kinkakuji (aka The Temple of the Golden Pavilion). This temple was made famous by the author Mishima who wrote a fictionalized account of the disgruntled monk who burnt the place to the ground in 1950. Luckily they had it rebuilt in three years. After seeing and taking many pictures of the Kinkakuji we walked uphill to the Ryoanji Temple. I stress the uphill because at that point my feet were really hurting and I whined and complained the whole way. DJ must have been thrilled, but I tried to keep it light. We then walked to the Ninnaji temple and it had just closed, but we stuck the camera through the fence and took pictures anyway. We jumped on a train that half way through the trip became a street car and we came back to the center of town. We wandered around for a long while and then decided to get dinner. Deciding on sushi, we found a place that looked good and went in. They didn’t have anything in English, but one of the servers spoke a little so he helped us choose something. We picked a set (Japanese love sets…like our value meals) and got the best sushi we’ve had in awhile. It just melted. They also served us some strange foods and I can’t even begin to imagine what they were, but it was all edible.

I didn’t sleep very well and my feet still hurt, but we wanted to get up and out early the next day. By 8:00am we were heading to the east side of Kyoto. We saw many temples and shrines and waited a bit too long to find lunch. We tried finding an English pub that DJ had been to in Hong Kong and once in Australia, but when we got there we found it was closed. We had some onigiri (rice triangles – fish wrapped in rice wrapped in seaweed) instead. I had salty plum and salmon while DJ had the wet seaweed. YUM! We headed back to the hotel for some rest before going back out to the (now open) English pub and then the Irish pub. I kept saying that I was glad that we lived in Japan so that I didn’t feel guilty about not always eating Japanese food when out. I will admit, though, that the sushi we had was by far the best meal.

Kyoto was a very modern city and apart from the nice shrines and temples and sections of city that are reminiscent of past times, it was just like any other city. It was like Tokyo, but with more cars and wider streets. I have to say, though, that we saw more western people there than I ever have here. I know we can go on base and see a lot of them there, but I expect it there. In Kyoto, it’s just tourists galore. I don’t see half as many white people out in town here than we did in Kyoto. We kept saying that seeing that many tourists just made us feel like any other tourist. But we live here (and that makes us extra awesome Americans). It was as if our year of living in Japan was wiped clean and we were seen as ignorant white tourists….just like everyone else. And it was not a good feeling. It’s constantly reinforced to us that we represent the U.S. to everyone we meet. So we’re often assuring people that Americans don’t ALL want war and we’re not all criminals. “You are driving all the way across the country by yourself?! Is that really safe? Isn’t it so dangerous in the states?” Listening to the other Americans around us, though (the tourists in the street talking and laughing loudly or the drunk guy in the bar) was a little embarrassing. Our culture is just so much louder and boisterous and different from the Japanese, it’s embarrassing to see others stand out so loudly. Being in Japan for so long (it’s only been a year, but hey) I start to forget how different we really are. I spend so much time trying to blend in and be the model American, that I forget how loud and fun Americans are. We are fun, but usually keep our parties at home.

So, while I did enjoy Kyoto and I got to see so many cultural sights, it was nice to get home to Hayama. Our kitties were very happy to see us.

Christmas Party

DJ and I went to a Christmas party Saturday night. Kayo (Rina’s mom) hosted it at her house and she had a bunch of friends over. Luckily almost all of them spoke English so they were very nice and kept a lot of the conversation in English for us. At one point they asked our ages and they thought I seemed about my age (27 next month) and they thought DJ was about 28. When he told them that he had actually turned 35 earlier this month, the place erupted. “Most Americans look much older than they are and much older than us Japanese, so for you to look so much younger…that is so amazing.” They just couldn’t get over it. DJ, of course, was LOVING it.

They asked us pretty amusing questions like, “I heard that people in America often put peanuts in Coca-Cola, is that true?” The answer was no…at least not to our knowledge. And my favorite, “Is it true that in some states it’s illegal to put a hole in a donut?” Again…not true. It boggles my mind that they would think that it would actually be illegal to put a hole in a donut, but ok.

We had a gift exchange and lucky us, ended up with more jam. We have enough jam to last us years because our families like to send jam for Christmas every year. We got to listen to Rina sing her song that she and I have been practicing for a few weeks now (from High School Musical 2, which she LOVES). And DJ got to play video games with the kids. And we had a blast doing that. They have a foot pad where you run as fast as you can and so does the character in the game or you have stand on the pad in order to balance on a motorcycle. We spent quite a while on that.

DJ jumping and playing

We brought them some wine with the imprint of Marilyn Monroe (made by Kestrel Winery in Washington State) on the bottle which they referred to as the ‘sexy wine’ for the night. They seemed quite happy with the fact that we weren’t like the other military families they knew. We were interested in their culture and wanted to try the food and alcoholic beverages. We want to see Japan from the inside and not just look at it as an outsider would. It’s important to us to try everything and experience as much as we can during our time in Japan. The culture is so different and I know I wouldn’t get to experience half as much as I get to without help from Japanese friends.

I won’t be posting this next week, because I’ll be in Kyoto! But, I’ll be back soon and post a lot of pictures!

Christmas and New Years Talk

While I was in class last night, the Japanese teacher that I often work with asked me what DJ and I were going to do on Christmas. I explained that we would probably just hang out at home with the kitties. We would have to be asleep fairly early because we have catch a very early train from Tokyo to Kyoto. She seemed shocked by my answer and her eyes got really big and she asked me, “aren’t you going to any parties?!” I said no and that we would just hang out at home. So she asked, “well…what about Christmas eve? Don’t you have any parties to go to on Christmas eve?” I said no again and that many people just spend time with their family on Christmas. She didn’t seem particularly satisfied with that answer and seemed to feel very very sorry for me. After a few minutes she asked if we went to church. I said no and she seemed even more surprised. As if all Americans go to church on Christmas, right? I then had to decide how much to tell her, especially since we were sitting with all of the students who were busy eating cake for a birthday party in which the birthday girl was absent that day (but that’s another subject entirely). I explained that while in college I had studied many religions and felt the Tibetan Buddhism resonated most closely with how I felt. So even though I had been raised Protestant, I had decided to follow Buddhism instead. She made the surprised noise the Japanese do (a high pitched raising of her voice) and said it was “so strange!”

In Japan, you don’t change religions or follow one path instead of another. You can pick bits and pieces from any religion and follow them all. You aren’t categorized the way you are in the states with one religion or another. You can believe some of buddhism, shinto, christian or nothing at all. It really doesn’t matter. And their celebration of Christmas is purely material. I asked one of my students the other day what she did to celebrate Christmas (it’s becoming very fashionable to celebrate Christmas here). She answered that she and her friends (she’s in her mid thirties, mind you) get together in a parking lot, exchange gifts and get really drunk.

The New Year is the really big holiday here, though. Since years are traditionally viewed as completely separate, they spend days before New Years eve cleaning the house so that they can usher in the new year with a clean slate. Everything is supposed to be finished so that you can leave last years worries and troubles behind. Everything is closed and people stay home with their families or visit the shrines until everything opens back up again on the 4th.

I’m can’t say I’m all that enthused about getting smashed in a freezing parking lot on Christmas, but I do fully get behind their New Years traditions. I like the idea of entering the year with a clean slate (and a clean house). I have to admit, the sparkling house thing might be a little tough for me…but I’m working on it!

And since all work is to be finished and you’re not supposed to be worried about cooking or cleaning, you can stock up with these ready made food items. You see them on sale in the grocery stores everywhere. As long as you’re a fan of gelatinous muck and other fishy and veggie items, you’re good to go! (I’ll have to pass – I’ve got some yummy Christmas cookies that Mom and Gram sent in the mail. They could last me. Maybe. Or not.) So, in the spirit of Japanese traditions, I’ll pick and choose what to follow and what not to! You can’t make me eat what’s in those boxes for three days. It’s just not gonna happen.

Osechi Ryori

My Boys

I don’t know why I haven’t made a post about my boys yet. These guys are what keep me sane. I can come home crazed after a long night of trying to make my students understand English and they are always waiting at the door. Of course, Zorro is trying to get out and go exploring and Leo just wants fish flakes, but that’s beside the point. They offer DJ and I hours of endless entertainment as they jump on each other, wrestle, and just be themselves. Leo and Zorro

They have also, on occasion, made phone calls. Once while we were living in Washington one of them stepped on the phone and made a long distance call to my parents (at midnight – oops) and today. Leo thought it was a good idea to lie down on the phone and call mom’s cell phone. Can you tell that I talk to my parents a lot, since it’s always their number on the redial? The kitties also make it very hard to type. Especially in the winter because the heater is located directly above the desk (it’s a wall unit). They bask in the warmth that is the heater and kick me out. And I let them, because I am such a sucker for my boys when they cuddle.

Kitties make it hard to type

When you just can’t wait

I do enjoy my wine….as you surely remember from this picture. However, I don’t really think that I would be so desperate for it that I would go to the grocery store and pick up one of these little drinkboxes. Although…I guess you never know.

wine frontwine back

Hard Off

Hard Off is a store kinda like Goodwill, but seeing that sign really just makes me wonder…where’s the hard on?

hard off

Toyota

As DJ and I were leaving the base the other day, we saw a jeep in front of us that really made us laugh.  The outside circle says, “It’s an outdoor sport that has recently started to shine.  Outdoor sport is the science to raise spirits.”  Then on the inside it says, “To choose sports for fashion or your personality.  The basic idea is to enjoy yourself.  That is important.”  Why yes, yes it is.  jeep

It Rise

As you leave the mall you have to walk past the food court and up on the wall is this sign, “It rise as clearly before my mind as if it happend yesterday.” Um…ok.

it rise

Pork Wonderful

A cookbook I saw at the store the other day. The only English in the entire book is the title, “Pork Wonderful.” Yummy.

pork wonderful

No Idea

No idea

I love this! It says “Sweet heart. I have no idea what’s going to happen.” Well…me either, but I don’t think I’d want to announce that!